- If you don't respect yourself, she won't respect you.
- By yielding to avoid conflict, you are rewarding the fact that she starts conflict.
- Unpleasant moments come and go. It's you who holds on to them.
- Some people only know serenity after the resolution of a conflict. They will start conflict seeking serenity.
- If a woman perceives you as lower status, humility will be a rug she will walk over.
- Treat her as the most important thing in the world only if you are willing to treat yourself as the most important thing in the world.
- If she dislikes something about herself, she will find it despicable in you. Sharing vice will build no rapport.
- Don't ask her to pick a letter of the alphabet, ask her to pick A or B.
- Resolving her problems only creates new problems. Even if it takes more time, it is better to empower her than to resolve it for her.
- Allow a storm to rage on, it can't go on forever.
- Always be willing to walk away. Your need for making things work at all costs is what creates all this trouble.