We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
Today, as I meditated at Parque Berlín, I came to understand step three. I understand God as pure awareness. We are closer to God when we are in contemplation or meditation. It's aligned with non-duality even though I've never identified myself with advaita vedanta. In contemplation, God (pure awareness) has already guided me where I am right now, without much struggle or effort.